Nisi sam(a). Više od 411.000 stvarnih objava od ljudi koji su se suočili s izazovima i pronašli rješenja. Pročitaj temu, podijeli pobjedu, ostavi savjet — tvoje riječi mogu biti poticaj koji netko danas treba.

today's top discussions:

logo

A Major Milestone for Humanitarian Digital Health!

Evolution

2025-08-13 12:36 AM

Anxiety Naša internetska zajednica.

logo

The Patchwork Quilt of Addiction

Timbo637

2025-06-29 5:59 PM

Quit Smoking Naša internetska zajednica.

logo

What food is actually considered Healthy..?

Evolution

2025-03-03 11:17 AM

Healthy Weight Naša internetska zajednica.

logo

Health Educators or Moderators missing?

Evolution

2025-03-03 11:16 AM

Quit Smoking Naša internetska zajednica.

This Month’s Leaders:

Most Supportive

Most Active

Most Loved

Browse through 411.779 posts in 47.071 threads.

162,038 članova

Poželite dobrodošlicu našim najnovijim članovima: katharineee, littlechef, mangelace, Shellster74, brookemarlowe1094

communication mom of 3


16 godina 0 3046 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
It is difficult to communicate when there is alot of water under the bridge (a KY saying for lots of stuff happened in the past).  However, making "I" statements instead of "you" statements is a good place to start.  Also, don't think about what you are going to say when the other person is talking - listen.  Then take a minute formulate your response.  There is a thing called assertive communication.  It breaks down into different communication styles (poor memory coming up).  I know there is passive-aggressive, aggressive, passive and assertive.  Think about past conversations - can you identify which one you used, which one he used.   
 

16 godina 0 3046 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0

Thanks for your post.  You are correct, communication takes two.  I think it is a problem on both our parts. A lot of hurt, misunderstandings that have festered, and some pride mixed together.  Who is guilty of what and to what degree, I don't know, it probably a mixture of both for both of us.  He says it's the way I say things and I find that I feel the same about his delivery.  It's probably all those underlying emotions showing but I don't know how to stop it.

16 godina 0 3046 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Mom of 3
Communication is NOT a one party event.  It takes two.  So to say I don't communicate very well is identifying that maybe you have some difficulties expressing yourself, but maybe the person who is the other half isn't very effective either.  You cannot change their communication, but yours.  There is the sender, the message and the receiver.  Can you identify which area is your problem?  


Reading this thread: