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Bytchly, Welcome to the Depression Center. It sounds horrible what you and your family went through. I would suggest that you see your family Doctor, perhaps they can refer you to someone that you can talk too. With regards to having a relationship with your father, that is something you will have to decide. Just remember to keep posting on the site, we are here for you. Also, make use of the tools on the left of your screen, take the depression test and bring the results with you to the Doctor. Susanne
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My sister was molested when she was nine by a man that I thought was my father. She never told anyone till she turn 14. I didnt want to believe her cause That was my father and I didnt think he would do anything like that. Its been almost 8 months now. 2 months ago we all had to goto the DA and they told my mom and I that everything was true that he really did do it. I couldnt even talk I didnt know what to say. I sat in the chair and cried. I felt like someone took my heart out of my body and put a knife through it. When I got home I couldnt stay around my family cause I felt like I let them all down. I feel like my family dont trust me anymore. But why did this have to happen to my little sister why couldnt it have been me? She has so many problems and its not far. The past few months I havent slept but when I fall asleep I dont want to get up. I sit in my room the days I dont work or goto school. I dont go anywhere with my friends anymore. I cry every night. This man That I trusted for 19years had turned on me and my family. It feels like my father hates us. I havent talked or seen him in a couple of months. People tell me I should see him or talk to him for what he did. But I cant do that it just putting 19 years of my life down a big drain. it was really hard to go with out him on my birthday and christmas. I didnt have any fun. I know i have depression and I do need help but I just need to get this all out. He hurt me so much He was always there for me and always hated my sister. but I never knew why. The day this took place I left home and I went for a ride to go see him And as he hugged me "he said" Will you love me no matter what happens? I told him no matter what you will always be apart of me. I didnt understand what he ment by that but now I do. I have many things going through my head right now and I dont know what to do . I cant go out with out thinking someone is judging me or putting me or my family down for something he did. Please someone help me What should I Do????????? :gasp: :(

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